Not Everyone Has Everything...!

Hello all,
Seeing you after so many days!
I wish the best of everything you get in your lives. Do not lose any hope! And if you are facing any problem right now, recall the best memories spent with your parents! Parents are Love!

Today's topic of my blog is "Not Everyone has Everything..!". The reason behind choosing this topic is there is no reason. Just a thought came to my mind, and my hand and fingers are doing the rest.
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There is a friend in my PG College, neither the best friend nor the worst friend. Just a friend. We were returning home after our lectures. I had attended all but he bunked one of his classes. That time he started talking to me about his dumbness. I was listening to him very carefully. I was engrossed and I started observing and noticing his motions and thoughts.

This person started talking about girls those who have got brain, does not want to work or start their own stuff but want to get married at an early stage. He said that what if he would have got that kind of intelligence. And he started picturing all the scenarios.

I was fine with everything whatever he was talking about. He went on and on. But I knew I am going to learn something from him today! And it happened.

A time came, when he himself gave answer to all his questions. He said,"Sabke pas sab kuch nai hota!" What he meant was "Not Everyone Has Everything!" A good thought though.

He was trying to motivate himself by saying those words. And he was not wrong at all.

No one is perfect in this World or even in the Universe. This is the reason why I am supporting this thought.

Everyone knows this. Everyone has come across this thought. But I want you to know here is not to rely on just four words of my title, we need to extend that.

"NOT EVERYONE HAS EVERYTHING,
BUT
EVERYONE HAS GOT SOMETHING!"

Use your resources wisely. And you will witness the happiness in your life.

SELF AWARENESS IS THE KEY TO GET THAT SOMETHING YOU HAVE GOT!

Respect your uniqueness.
Respect yourself as an Individual with different Identity.
Respect yourself for who you are and not what you want to be!

Do not trust people who say you are good for nothing!

When people say this to you, remember that you are better at something.

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Do not focus on what people tell you...
Stay away from those who ask you to carry umbrella who haven't ever been in rains! Ask questions to your own self. Seek your OWN identity.

BE THAT SOMEONE who asks the heart before taking any big step!
And when you get that something, you become that someone who lives his or her own dream!

Keep Smiling
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Bless All :)

The Story Of ALWAYS...!

Hello All,
Good day to everyone.
May the day bring the brightest smile on your face.
Today I am going to write on "The story of always!"
You might be thinking what this story will be. Is it going to be something like "The Cockroach Theory" (my 18th Blogpost) or different?

Here it goes!

"Always" never happens!
"Always" is the word you should ignore in any sentence.
"Always" is the thing which we should never be fond of!
"Always" is something which makes you very rigid.

Why have I stressed so much on always...?
You yourself will come to know.

Here are few sentences which I had asked my colleagues to write.
Their exercise was to write sentences in which they use "always" always.
1. I am "always" positive.
2. I will "always" love you.
3. Why this "always" happen with me?
4. I "always" pray good things for close ones.
5. I "always" feel lazy at home.
6. I "always" have challenges in managing my money.
7. I "always" try to make plans on the basis of how much time is remaining and do accordingly.

Now I have got a bunch of sentences by which I can explain why always should be avoided unless you are not aware about yourself to the extent that you control your mind, heartbeats and even your breathing.

I am always positive, this itself is a good thing. But there are times when you break down completely and you need motivation and you become helpless. I am not against of anyone who is positive or looking at everything positively, but if you think you are always positive, then you must remove that always.
(If you want its practical example, watch F.R.I.E.N.D.S., and there was a guy Phoebe dated who was always positive. I am trying to explain that here.)

The second one, the trickiest one since that "YOU" is me over here.
Love is a big thing on which I should not talk on. Removing always from sentences is not necessary always. And this thought is also applicable to sentence number 4.
SEE,
ALWAYS ALSO DOESN'T WORK ALWAYS...!

If you say "Thank You" whenever any good happens to you, you will realize that you thank more , but the context here is of "ALWAYS". So yes, when you accept the fact that everyone is facing some or the other challenge, you would probably understand I am not the only one who is facing these situations.

I understand being at home is sometimes irksome. But imagine, you are living in a hostel and you visit home once in a month, would it be that lazy? Obviously No! The conclusion here is, never put your always on someone else's life.

Managing money, is a stuff which people try to do when they start earning. When you are aware of the things where you lack, it becomes an easy task to manage. Hence, you should stop saying always in such situations if you want to grow because you restrict your growth.

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About the last sentence!
There is no fun if you have all the planned schedule.
The fun is in breaking the rules.
But YES! Not always!!!!

Hope you have liked this blogpost!
Do tell me of some other examples which we can discuss on!

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Thank you for being an amazing audience!

Bless all :)

The Success...!

Hello Everyone.
Hope you all are doing great in your lives like me!

This blog is based on the speech which I gave at The Somaiya School, VIdyavihar. 
It is about the Success and the Journey relating to that.
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Here it goes!

The philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer once said, "Most people take the limits of their vision to be the limits of the world and few do not, join them."

Consider that you are driving a car and suddenly a bucket full of mud gets stuck on your front windscreen glass.

What would you do in such situation?

You would probably do one of these two things;

either you stop your car or you will turn on the windscreen wipers to get rid off the debris, won't you?

People will keep throwing mud, stones and many times taunts on those who work for making something better or who strive to make world a better place. Likewise, in our lives, the mud will definitely come and it will make our vision unclear and vague, the vision which was leading us towards our goal, that vision which was making us closer to our destiny. What we have to do here is to turn the wipersof our lives on. Remember, we all will face or I would say we all are already dealing with many problems. The only people with no problems are dead.

Martin Luther King Jr had said, "If you have not discovered something you are willing to die for, then you're not fit to live." Find that something with all your best and leave the rest behind and DRIVE THE CAR. 

By getting clear on what you want out of life, you raise your awareness about what's most important. With better awareness comes the better choices. And with better choices, you will see better results. Clarity breeds success.

Enjoy climb up the mountain but do not take your eyes off the summit.

We need to constantly focus on our destiny and love our journey! I said constantly because success, joy and peace, do not show up. You need to create them.

I tell you, you can not achieve success in a day or two; but with discipline and consistency you will definitely embrace the success. And for that we need to start from somewhere. A smallest action is the only thing which is required and yes! I do the right things. Right things are always hard to do. And who said success is the easy thing to grab?

Something that I have observed is people do not try new things. They fear... They have the fear of failure. Run towards your fear. And even if you fail, that's okay.

"Though the failures might haunt you, the success will wish you!" These were the words of Miss Anukreethy Vas- Miss India World 2018.

Just dream the success.! 

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It is never too late to become the person you're always dreamed of being..!

I wish you all the best and I will pray that may the Lord give you the power to face the difficulties in your life..!

Thank you!

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