Attitude...!

Hello all,
Good day to all who are reading this post and to all those around you who are frustrated.

Before reading this post, I want you to do some small exercise of Smiling.
What you have to do is, just smile for two minutes.
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Do not read further if you have not completed  this exercise.
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I am sure that you are feeling awesome right now and thank me for this.
Whenever you feel low, do this exercise instead of getting mad at someone.

Ah, you must be wondering why I told you to do this exercise before reading my post. The reason is, I want my readers to feel happy even if they find my blogs boring!
I'm Kidding!!

Today I am going to talk about the attitude. This is the most misunderstood word in our lives.
The reason is people consider attitude to be a bad thing.
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NO!
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The attitude is nothing but your way of looking at things or situations.

I have seen people saying, "That girl is showing so much attitude!" What they exactly mean is she is very rude. But rudeness is not attitude.

If at all people say, you have a lot of attitude, they aren't wrong. It absolutely means you are good at something which they are not capable of doing.
The only thing what we have to do here is, we have to shift our energies into good things only.

For an instance,
I have heard people talking about me on my back that I have a lot of attitude. I used to feel very bad back then because I had not understood what that word means! But now whenever people come and tell me, I take it as a compliment.

How did it happen with me?

The time when I used to feel bad, I had no idea how to change my life. I really had no guts to change my lifestyle or anything as such. There was a time when I discussed this with my mentor, she realized, I know nothing about the word attitude.
she helped me out.
The ATTITUDE which I have got, she told me to use wisely and at the right moment. And that is the reason why, I love doing whatever I do. I invested my attitude in good things. And now I am not afraid of what people talk about me behind my back!
Yeah, one thing is so sure, I do not do bad things which might affect my health, body or peace of my mind.

There are two types of attitude;
1. Positive 2. Negative
The positive attitude helps us to get the positive out of everything. And maybe that is the reason why I am always positive. No matter what happens in my personal or even in professional life, I have got something with me and that is my attitude. I am having positive outlook!

What about you?

Feeling sad about something is okay!
Crying is also, I consider the Okayish thing!
But
Recovering is important!
And here, your attitude helps in your recovery!

Never have a negative approach before doing something.
Never have a negative approach after doing something.
You do learn every single time !

Stay Positive and Keep Growing!

The Cockroach Theory...!

Hello All,
Good day to all from India.
Stay happy even if it is a Monday.

I am indirectly talking to you after very long time.
But yeah back with a great topic called 'A COCKROACH THEORY !".
This theory was told by my very close friend cum guide and supporter of all the time.

A story you need to know-

There were two girls, entered in a restaurant. They asked for a seat which they had already reserved. They sat and started clicking pictures till the time waiter comes to their table. After a couple of minutes the waiter came and those girls ordered the most expensive dish on the menu. The waiter got the order and he went. Those two girls started chatting and suddenly one cockroach somehow managed to fly and the tiny arthropod sat on a girl's shoulder.
what next?
The girl started screaming so loudly that everyone could see her shouting. She was not conscious about the surrounding but the cockroach on her shoulder. Everyone started laughing and started passing the comments on her. She was helpless and could not resist jumping and crying.

Her friend was feeling embarrassed and that is why she started yelling at her.

The waiter was analyzing this situation from the corner. He came into the picture when the things started getting worse.

He came close to that frightened girl. He caught that insect in his fingertips and calmly went outside. He threw it away and came inside.

The girl was very thankful to the waiter and everyone resumed their work.

You read the story but have you understood it?

If you are calm in the worse situations, you will most likely do better than feeling like messed up!
People always say to do this but everyone does not know how to make it happen.
The change you want, won't happen now.
There would be situations like I mentioned in the story above! You yourself think where you want to be! You can either be that girl or the waiter! The choice is yours!

INITIATION is the first step.

Start working on it. Gradually and with turtle's speed you will definitely get what you want.

The calmest person in the room is the most powerful!
- Eben Pagan

Yeah one more thing, staying calm does not always mean to remain silent !
You have to act or remain silent as per the demand of the situation !

Think before whatever you do!
I understand people say that you should probably not think about the society or whatever but you can not forget we are humans with brains. Start using it optimally !

Hope you liked the story!
Do share this story with your friends when they need it !

With loads of love,
Aarati J.

{The story courtesy- Mr. Rishab Sharma}

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The Connection...!

Hello All,
Good day to everyone.

People keep asking me why I do not write blogs everyday. Okay, first of all, thank you for being the best audience so far, I really appreciate.
I write blogs when I feel like writing, I feel like there is something to write. Although I do not mention any name but I write on real incidents.

I also want my readers to connect to the posts I write and therefore it takes time to put it down on the page.

I get questions such as whether this is my internship project or work which I am getting paid for, or which books/people I refer to and many more. If you also have these questions then this post is for them.

I like to read books, I watch videos, I have friends, those who always motivate me and keep me going in whatever things I do. These all things have made me to stay firm and positive in every situation.

And now about the blogs....

I am that person who likes to help others, motivate others through own experiences and I strongly believe IF I CAN DO THESE, EVERYONE ELSE CAN. We all need a hope. And i guess that is what I do.

A hope... to stand,
A hope... to smile,
A hope... to work,
A hope... to live,
and not to give up.

A blog which motivates you through real life experiences, and a hope to live!

I have faced many difficulties in my life which you will understand through my blogs very soon. I tell you, if I could stand, why can't you?

I do not want more views, there are not any likes or subscribe stuff....

What I really want is,
if I share this blog with you,
I want you to read it whenever you feel low,
Whenever you find that you need someone who could understand your feelings, just come here and READ!

or Send me a message by which I can connect to you!

I am taking a genuine effort where I do not expect anything but YOUR HAPPINESS!

I also understand, some of you do not like reading such long posts or you are the person who hate reading.. I do understand! And therefore, I use Layman's term to connect with everyone.

I promise you all, I will keep doing this work tirelessly and with same enthusiasm.

I want you to learn and be there for your friends to whom I can not reach to.

They might not ask for help but we are animals with heart.
The Heart.. with Emotions...
The Emotions... with Feelings...
The Feelings.. with Connections..
and
The connection.. with Love and Care...

And there we reach the ultimate fact of the life...

BE THAT SOMEONE 
WHO IS THERE FOR YOUR PEOPLE.

Lead your life!

AGAR TUMHARE AANE SE FARAK NAI PADA,
TO TUMHARE JANE SE BHI FARAK NAI PADEGA!

Translation-
If your arrival was not worth,
Your departure will not make any difference...!

Make a Dent!

#KeepReading

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Learn from everyone...!

Hello All,
Greetings!

Hope you doing great.
I wish you have a fabulous day ahead.

I always write on the topics which are quite relevant to the lives of youth around the globe. And that makes me happy when people connect! I am thankful to everyone for reading my blog and feel inspired.

Today I wanted to share one thing which I experienced a day before yesterday.

I take Biology lectures of 12th Std and I realized even after taking lots of efforts, students were not serious about the studies. I understand a student's life because I am a student par se. But I am that aware of the things which I do. And my students aren't. They are very young!

I talked to myself and came to one conclusion.
That the aim of every teacher is to make students aware of everything be it study or the Knowledge of the world which is beyond textbooks .

Therefore, I told them to write answer to a question, "When will you start studying?" on the index page of their notebook. It was quite an obvious question which every teacher asks while scolding students.

I asked to do this exercise because I wanted them to know by themselves when they should start their real study for boards!

I was amazed by the students' answers.

The first student wrote,
"I will start studying tomorrow onward."
I was okay with the answer because he was sure that he will start from tomorrow.

Another students wrote,
"I will start studying today."
I was happy that the student was very serious about the studies and will start today itself.

There was a student who wrote,
"I will start studying NOW."
I was surprised, not because the student used his presence of mind but the way he thought!

WOW!
I learnt.
And when I read what he had written, I explained everyone how this attitude will benefit him for life long.
Whenever he opens that notebook, he will read that first what he has written because it's there on the index page and he will be study with passion.

That has to be our ATTITUDE towards life.

This reminds me a Saint Kabir's doha,

"KAL KARE SO AAJ KAR, AAJ KARE SO AB |
PAL MEIN PARYAL HOYEGI, BAHURI KAREGA KAB || "

English translation- 

Whatever you decide to do tomorrow, do it today... And today's work anon.
If this moment is lost, when you will do your work.

Try to learn from everyone around you, do not fall for ego!
Embrace things which come to you. Learn from everything.

LISTEN WITH YOUR EYES....
&
SEE WITH YOUR EARS.....


KEEP LEARNING.
KEEP READING.
KEEP SMILING.


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Parent-ship...!

Hello All,
Good day to all of you from India.

Today when I opened WhatsApp, I saw many of my friends posting their either of the parents a birthday wish.
A very happy birthday to all of them and may your life be cherished and I pray that you get the strength to face the difficult situations in your life.

Parents....

Who are they?
Every person on this planet Earth has parents, right?
They are those who work selflessly to make their child grow healthy, wealthy and happy...

We as youngsters sometimes forget they are also growing. We say Age is just a number. Yes, I agree.
But you can notice the struggle behind their wrinkles if you compare their today's "The Pic of the Day" and pic of the day when they had got married. Absolutely Eternal, isn't it?

This post is specially for those who do not talk to their parents. I know there must be a reason or reasons not to talk to them. And there is only single reason for which you need to talk to them. They are the only people who are going to be there with you no matter what you do in your life. The one and only one relation which is true! 

Ask those who miss the chance to wish their parents on their birthday.

There are people who do not even have a single photo with their parents to post on the social sites.
There are people who want to hug their parents and cry and say sorry but they can not.
There are people who can not share anything with their parents.
There are people who want advice from parents right now but they can not ask for it.
There are people who want to go with them in a resort/ restaurant/ on a trip but they can not.
There are people who want to sleep on the parents' laps and again they can not!

If you are a parent, go now, hug your kid/ call your child now and say how much you love them!
If you are a child (of any age), go now, hug them, CRY and tell them you are blessed to have them in your life. Say how grateful you are! Say how much you love and care for them.....! Just say!

Take some time out and say everything. Do not stop yourself. Show some care.
I understand they know that you love them but try out this once!

And YES!!!!
You can read my posts because of them.
I thank to all of them for raising a great person like you!
They are wonderful!

Be That Someone who expresses the true colors of their emotions in front of their parents.. They will love this..!

Bless you! :)

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Keep Reading!
Keep Learning!
Keep Smiling!

Thank you!